They seem to be everywhere! The misguided (or unguided, depending on your perspective) brood of the late power-lawyer Robert Kardashian are perhaps stalking you. But, what you didn’t know is that Robert, Khloe, Kim, Kourtney, and Kris might be ruining your love life.
Hopefully, you only see these individuals as a source of entertainment; however, if you ever remotely thought about taking them seriously, then here are a few reasons why these “reality stars” could be not only taking up precious real estate on your DVR, but also ruining your love life.
First of all, Robert is not a bad guy, but I recommend that you set your dating sights beyond a cute face, and a questionable wallet. Rob, like many men is getting his life together (I hope), and while it may be tempting to be a passenger on his train, since of course, all he needs is encouragement from the right woman *sarcasm*, don’t do it. And while you might not be pining over our fair Rob, this goes for other men in his situation. Let a man be a man, and if he’s not being A man, then consider the possibility that he cannot be YOUR man…at least not right now. It’s important that a man be able to stand on his on own two feet–otherwise you might have to carry him.
Where do I start? A ten-day courtship and now it’s shocking that this marriage has challenges. Love at first sight is a myth (unless you have just given birth). When people want to have a life together, it requires time. Time allows you to see beyond the newness of your shiny relationship, and into the reality (no pun) of what this person brings to your table. I don’t doubt that Lamar is a nice guy, but with an interesting dating track record (and I will just leave it at that), Khloe should’ve given this relationship time to grow and mature before saying I do. So what am I saying? Take your time. Rushing to the altar almost guarantees that the honeymoon, and then the marriage, will be over sooner than you think.
If this young woman was the average girl in an American community, she’d be considered a random, run-of-the-mill “babymomma.” But because she has fortune and fame, society overlooks the fact that she has two children out of wedlock. Let me take a minute and warn the men who might read this that women like Kourtney are not the type of women you want to date, nor mate with. While she’s cute, she is a demanding brat, who acts more like poor Scott’s mother than his lover–YIKES! While, I understand that he has made some dumb decisions, if it’s so catastrophic that you have to mother your man, then it’s not worth it. Let him go, and for go measure, don’t tether yourself to him forever as the mother of his children. Voila!
And last but not least…
I will probably dedicate a Celebrity Love Note to her, as did for her NOT YET EX-husband, Kris Humphries. My apologies if you thought that she was divorced…she is not. The saddest part of her relationship life is not that she and Kanye procreated (while that is very sad), it is that this woman hasn’t stop dating long enough to learn from the failure of her past relationships, nor to even get divorced. At some point, we all have to take responsibility for the roles that we’ve played in relationships that didn’t work, or are considered our own personal, “epic fails.” But we cannot do that if we continue to date through breakups and separations. Take time to heal. The person who said that, “the best way to get over an old man is to get under a new one,” is lying to you. This is how you become confused, vulnerable and, possibly knocked up. Kim is a young woman with severe issues. Fellas…also take heed to this one. Don’t let the size of her assets persuade you to be with someone who is not ready for a real relationship. This will not end well.
Well, those are just a few of my thoughts on how The Kardashians are possibly ruining your love life. If you after reading this feel that it’s beyond time for you to get your life (and love) together, then take a peek at our new low-to-no cost coaching and mentoring programs. If you’re being a little, “Kardashian” I promise not to let you stay that way. (Smile!)